“The one thing we can never get enough is love and the one thing we never give enough is love”. Said Henry Miller
It is the most important chapter in my life. I have often been chided as an emotional fool. Never mind be it so I choose to be what I am and do not want to change myself in any way.
Love increases your self confidence in life. This applies to not a particularrelationship but in fact to all relationships be it with anyone in this world.
Relationships are the only thing on the basis of which the whole human being is lasting so if we think logically we can realize that strong relationship gives birth to enjoyable fulfilling life. The relationships that definitely need strong nurturing and a hold is the relationship within the family, parents, siblings, spouse and your own children. After which comes friends and the world at large.
Love is the greatest gift on this earth the more we love or our capable of loving the more it grows. It has to be unconditional. It’s like a bridge that connects the two banks of a river. No two people are the same each have their own different personalities, love is the bridge that encourages the connect. When communication is laced with love no matter what the difference of opinion could be the differences melt into oblivion.
Trust is off paramount importance it’s an implied value of a relationship. Trust is both reason of love and result of love. To make a relationship strong and lasting freedom of speech is important so lace it with keeping your lines of communication always open.
I feel the best way of resolving issues in relationships is having an open communication and clearing your doubts. If you choose to ignore matters that is according to me the biggest mistake people commit. Communication melts many an issues. An issue how ignorable it is if kept in mind for several days can take forms of anger frustrations dislikes etc., and on later dates can get expressed in ugly manners. Let the communication between relationships be frequent and no one should hold the words back. Only keep in mind that you are discussing not arguing. You are no in a contest but just expressing your thoughts.
My definition of love when defined is respect and care. Express the emotions whenever possible and see the blossoming of a happy life.
My heart ponders over situations that involve family conflict at times and I have reached the conclusion that effective communication can only be clubbed into four styles.
Clear and direct communication, clear and indirect communication, masked and direct communication, and last masked and indirect communication.
Each of the style has its own benefits and disadvantages. The communicator has to decide which style to be used in accordance with the situation.
Family is the place where there should be no strict or inflexible rules. Principles always remain subordinates to preferences. Focusing on preferences simply means giving more importance to personal likes and dislikes than rules and regulations. Collectively we need to support each other’s ideas give an opinion and not thrust an opinion. If an opinion is not taken seriously does not mean love diminishes it’s just an individual thought.
Remaining positive and removing all negative sarcastic communication will destroy the warmth of family talking. Creative criticism is helpful in family but always define limits to criticism.
I keep reading my own scripts of effective living because it reminds how to keep my communication with family appreciating encouraging supporting and soothing. I do keep making mistakes but I try to improve each time. Relationships need to go beyond verbal dialogues or expression. A kiss a hug an appreciation a thumbs up gesture everything can tell more than words can do.
Being clear gentle and precise is the rule applicable to any communication. Norelationship as a whole is destined to be jovial and satisfying. There are moments of happiness and struggle.
There are no perfect relationships in life only perfect situations created through love affection and care. TC.
Love and God Bless
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