Power Of Decision Making
Decision-making is the process of choosing a course of action from among several alternatives. The power of decision-making lies in its ability to shape our lives, both individually and collectively. Effective decision-making enables us to set goals, solve problems, and capitalize on opportunities. It helps us to control our destiny and make informed choices that positively impact our future. The ability to make good decisions is a valuable skill that can be developed and honed over time and can bring us closer to realizing our aspirations and achieving success.
There are many people who have come to me and have written to me and say that I am NOT able to take decisions in life I am NOT able to make up my mind and then you help yes y'all have made a decision to seek help I repeat you have made a decision to seek help that means you're capable of taking a decision, you have made a decision that you cannot decide that means you've made up your mind that you cannot decide in life.
Why are we not able to take decisions in life, why are we not able to make up our mind now there are two reasons for it which I see are two very valid reasons one your dependency upon other people or other factors of life is huge it's large and second is because you are lazy you do not want to wrack your brains and you feel that if I don't make this decision I need not be responsible for my actions now these are two very valid reasons like if I have somebody else to take care of my life if I have somebody to take the decision for me why should I wrack my brains and second is when I feel being responsible of my actions I fear that if I take a particular decision it may backfire I don't want to take the decision.
My simple question to you all there is that when I am weak I want to be strong how do I become strong I become strong if I become responsible for the actions that I think if I become responsible of the decisions that I think automatically makes me strong automatically it helps me to take out fear from my mind body and soul so you must understand that with one decision you are actually empowering yourself with three great things one is I take out the fear from my mind and heart second is I become strong and third is I am liberated I become free from dependency these are the things that empower a person making a decision or not making a decision is a decision by itself so if every sphere of life in every I would say sector of our life or in every walk of life the major factor is a decision, we do make a decision.
I will help you not like when we are professionals we have options in front of us we choose to decide which option we want or which option we are going to be comfortable in of which option we want to follow or we decide to follow but not choosing that option and expect somebody else to choose that option for you is going to make you feel not empowered, it is going to make you feel dependent but yet listening to the advice of the other person is a decision by itself, so again I clear to the everybody out there is that learn to make decisions for yourself if you actually introspect and see every individual hundred percent whether you are a decisive person or an indecisive person it's very easy to decide for other people I need not be able to make a decision for myself but I will be very ready and eager to make that decision for somebody else because it empowers me when I'm trying to decide a course of action for somebody else I feel great about it.
Now imagine when you are making the decision for yourself how great you will feel and you can make the correct or wrong comes later whether you are making a correct decision or whether you are making a wrong decision is immaterial now how can you overcome the fear of thinking whether it's a wrong decision or a correct decision is by being responsible for the decision that you take if you are responsible and if you are ready to fall you will be ready no but if you're not ready to fall if you are not ready to take responsibility or whatever action you take then I'm sorry you have no right to say that I want to be a part or I want to be successful.
I want everybody to understand that if you want to be strong in life if you want to be successful in life if you want to be happy in life empower yourself with a simple phenomenon by being able to take decisions for yourself right or wrong doesn't matter trust me you'll feel so liberated you'll feel so happy after having taken it and say okay let me walk on that path in case if I'm not successful I decide and I can choose another path so again the bottom line comes as decision.
Second I have seen why people don't take decisions because they have chosen or they have decided to create to God or to their higher energies for taking a decision for them so we get into this I would say rut or we get into the spiritual shopping by saying I have left everything on God I have left everything on my higher energies whatever he chooses or whatever he tells me to do is what I am doing but remember the decision to walk on that path is again yours the decision to leave everything on God is again yours and at times I have seen people say I pray so much I'm a very honest person I'm a person who's working with my purity of intent I am a person who's correct and they're wrong now who has given you the power to choose whether you're right and wrong it's your decision it's your inner consciousness and prompting you and telling you that I am right I am honest I am walking the correct but yet things are not happening to me why aren't the things happening to me that when it is important to take a decision whether to choose a profession a or profession b or go with a particular relationship or not go with a particular relationship you are unable to execute first you take a decision and then unable to execute that decision so you leave it up to the other people and you feel that if things go wrong I don't have to be blamed but I can blame the other person for not giving me the correct decision.
Listening to that other person is your decision the other person has given the answer or whatever you've asked but you have chosen to agree to him so you cannot blame the other person for giving you a wrong decision and last but not the least when you take a decision and you confidently take a decision by being responsible for whatever repercussions you may have to trust me you won't believe because you end up saying I thought that path was good I thought that work was good but MA it has taught me experience even though I have not got the results with this experience now I choose correctly and I am going to be successful so learn how to decide and choose what is good for you
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