Full Moon Closures
The full moon in Gemini on December 4th illuminated themes of duality within ourselves, highlighting the delicate balance between the heart and mind—those two integral parts of our personality that often find themselves at odds. The heart urges us to connect and express, while the mind sometimes holds back, gripped by fear and caution. I found myself wrestling with this very tension, particularly when it came to certain relationships that were filled with unnecessary chatter.
In an effort to find clarity, I turned to my journal. I wrote down my thoughts, laying bare my feelings and intentions. After refining my reflections, I sent that page to the person involved. I understood that if they appreciated my honesty and perspective, it would signify that our connection was genuine and worth nurturing. However, if their response was unkind or dismissive, I would take that as a divine signal to step back from a relationship that may not serve my well-being.
This approach has guided me through challenging decisions throughout my life. Each time I faced a fork in the road—made difficult choices that felt daunting—I eventually found that they led to growth and clarity. Today, standing at yet another crossroads, I took a moment to pen down my thoughts once more. It’s a reminder that embracing our vulnerabilities can lead to profound insights and empower us to make the choices that resonate with our true selves.
Since afternoon I’ve been sitting with a quiet thought in my heart, and I want to share it with all the love and respect I hold for you. I know you never speak with the intention to harm anyone, but sometimes, without realising it, we end up talking about people who no longer have any place in our lives. Even if it’s casual, it still brings a heaviness into our space, and it doesn’t nourish either of us. Guru Nanak Dev Ji taught us to keep our words pure and our hearts free from the weight of speaking about others. His wisdom reminds us that when we refrain from such conversations, we protect our own peace and keep our inner world light. And at this age we have to deliberately protect the sacred space that we both have endeavoured to build.
You are living among people whose intentions, attitudes, and greed you yourself have seen, experienced and understood. And yet, you remain untouched by their ways. I often think of you like a lotus blooming in the muck — surrounded by negativity, yet rising above it with your own grace. Whenever I hear you speak about them, I feel this deep urge to reach out and remind you of your own light. You need to deliberately abstain from even talking about them.
Your karma, your dharma, is to stay away from their energies — not just physically, but in thought, word, and action. Their vibrations don’t bring happiness to anyone, not even to themselves. So why should we allow their lives to occupy our minds? Why should we let our thoughts be coloured by people who add nothing to our journey? Probably you would have to convey this to your better half. I know you always lend a ear and feel that she needs to talk with someone given most of the time she is alone.
Give it a thought you may help her improve her own karma by putting a stop to listening her out about what happens in her family. You both have spent so much time in discussing those who never pay heed to your advice or improved in their habits, sometimes its best for your peace of mind to eliminate talking or hearing about such people since you cannot possibly take them out from your circle. You know she will never stop talking to them or feel for them, why are you allowing yourself to be dragged and forced to listen about them . Because inadvertently our ego is inflated thinking that the universal energies have been very kind to us. Remember our words colour our thoughts and reflect in our actions. Just being or thinking good doesn’t help we need to walk our talk. Get your journey correct.Try to insulate yourself. You could perhaps ask Sai Sahib if wether what I am saying is wrong?
You’re on such a beautiful path—growing, evolving, deepening your spiritual journey. And I truly admire that. That’s why I feel called to gently remind you: even light gossip, especially with those closest to us, can quietly pull us away from that inner clarity and peace we are wanting to cultivate.
It’s not about being perfect—it’s about protecting the sacred space we are building within. Words carry energy, and when we speak of others in ways that aren’t rooted in compassion or empathy that energy lingers. You deserve a journey that’s unclouded, intentional, and deeply aligned with your highest self.
I say this with love, not judgment. You’re doing amazing things, and I just want to see you rise without distractions that dim your light.
Discussing people steals our precious time — time that could be spent growing, healing, learning, or simply being at peace. And later, without meaning to, we find ourselves thinking about what they’re doing or where they’re heading. That’s not the energy we want to invest in our own path. We don’t want them coming in our lives in the life after.
I say this with deep respect — I know I’m younger than you, and I value you immensely. But I truly feel our conversations can be so much more uplifting when we focus on our own growth, our own inner work, our own evolution. There is so much beauty in reflecting on our subconscious patterns, learning from them, and gently correcting our course.
I’m choosing to step away from any talk that pulls me into negativity or distracts me from the person I’m trying to become. And I would be grateful if we could keep our conversations centred on things that bring light, clarity, and spiritual growth into our lives.
Thank you for understanding — it means more to me than I can express.🥰
In conclusion, my recent conversation with a close relation was a profound reminder of the power of open communication and mutual support. Their thoughtful acknowledgment of my concerns resonated deeply with me, validating my feelings and thoughts in a way that felt both comforting and empowering. However, I must admit that addressing my concerns to someone I valued greatly was no small feat. I often find myself grappling with my emotions, hesitant to voice my thoughts for fear of hurting others. Yet, the approach I took was guided by the cosmic energies around me. The Full Moon of December 4th offered me the clarity and confidence to express myself, while Neptune's direct motion on December 11th acted as a gentle nudge to address my feelings in a constructive way. I realized that it is through embracing these energies that I could articulate what was needed without causing distress.
This exchange has reinforced the importance of trusting relationships in our lives—ones that inspire positive change and foster understanding. Ultimately, it is these connections that encourage us to stay true to our paths and uplift one another in the journey ahead. By taking advantage of such transformative periods, we can make daunting tasks more manageable, leading us towards deeper emotional resilience and connection.
Always Stay Blessed. 😇
